Kinky bdsm
femsubdenial:

artisticsub:

submissivedreamer:

submissiveinlawschool:

his-beloved-roisin:

masterswiddlebunny:

whatapreciouslittlefuckfox:

meandmypetssubmissions:

theuppertransversal:

little-babygirl:

I love this, it’s so beautiful.

I’m always afraid people will see this and think, see, all that misogynistic treatment has broken her down and now she is traumatized and deeply upset.  More often than not, the tears are described by subs as a cathartic release, like receiving the news that a loved one will be cured of disease instead of dying.  That is the kind of tears that are usually shed in the case of a crying session.  She is not upset, she is letting herself go on a tied of emotion, which ebbs and flows in her, and which was brought to the surface by literally stimulating the surface.
The top’s responsibility is not to tell her,”I’m sorry baby, its ok, please don’t cry ”, it is to tell her, “that’s it baby, let it all out, you cry as hard as you need to”
The top’s responsibility is also to keep a look out for the other kind of crying, and they are expected to know the difference, and act accordingly.

That release is so powerful. What’s even more powerful, is the fact that ANYTIME I’m upset, Sir always tells me that it is safe to cry with him. Whether we are in a scene, or I’ve just had a rough day, Sir makes me safe and loved and not ashamed to let my emotions out. I am so grateful for that.
-kitten

this may be my most favorite post the entire bdsm community has ever produced, commentary and all.

yes.

this is my favourite post of all the D/s posts on tumblr. it is just incredible. 

I had to reblog everyone’s posts. This is beautiful and perfect. Very few may understand uppertransversal’s words outside our community. But they don’t need to. I don’t think twice about it. I just simply pity their misunderstanding. They are missing out on perhaps a more rewarding and beautiful relationship than they could ever know otherwise.

I don’t think people outside of the community can quite understand exactly how cathartic this is. This isn’t abuse - this is nurturing. 

I think I reblogged this before, but it was a different thread of comments.

Same here, filed under
#crying, I think.

femsubdenial:

artisticsub:

submissivedreamer:

submissiveinlawschool:

his-beloved-roisin:

masterswiddlebunny:

whatapreciouslittlefuckfox:

meandmypetssubmissions:

theuppertransversal:

little-babygirl:

I love this, it’s so beautiful.

I’m always afraid people will see this and think, see, all that misogynistic treatment has broken her down and now she is traumatized and deeply upset.  More often than not, the tears are described by subs as a cathartic release, like receiving the news that a loved one will be cured of disease instead of dying.  That is the kind of tears that are usually shed in the case of a crying session.  She is not upset, she is letting herself go on a tied of emotion, which ebbs and flows in her, and which was brought to the surface by literally stimulating the surface.

The top’s responsibility is not to tell her,”I’m sorry baby, its ok, please don’t cry ”, it is to tell her, “that’s it baby, let it all out, you cry as hard as you need to”

The top’s responsibility is also to keep a look out for the other kind of crying, and they are expected to know the difference, and act accordingly.

That release is so powerful. What’s even more powerful, is the fact that ANYTIME I’m upset, Sir always tells me that it is safe to cry with him. Whether we are in a scene, or I’ve just had a rough day, Sir makes me safe and loved and not ashamed to let my emotions out. I am so grateful for that.

-kitten

this may be my most favorite post the entire bdsm community has ever produced, commentary and all.

yes.

this is my favourite post of all the D/s posts on tumblr. it is just incredible. 

I had to reblog everyone’s posts. This is beautiful and perfect. Very few may understand uppertransversal’s words outside our community. But they don’t need to. I don’t think twice about it. I just simply pity their misunderstanding. They are missing out on perhaps a more rewarding and beautiful relationship than they could ever know otherwise.

I don’t think people outside of the community can quite understand exactly how cathartic this is. This isn’t abuse - this is nurturing. 

I think I reblogged this before, but it was a different thread of comments.

Same here, filed under
#crying, I think.
When we accepted bdsm as our lifestyle, we didn’t do it because it is cool or because it is a revolution against traditions. We accepted it because it bring us happiness, it draw a smile in our lips each time we practise it with our partners and give us peace with our burning desires and nature. The media, uptight communities, and bad porn sites may be filled with misery, tears and suffering but after the “thin models” finish and take their payment for the “act”, after the last TV station close its lights at night , after the last traditional angry mob who against BDSM sleep at night .. you see Us, the simple normal passionate people who love this lifestyle, you see the not supermodels submissive girls who stand by their Master side, you see the caring Masters and Dominants, you see the passionate snuggles at the end of night, you see strong realtionship that stand against all haters.. you see the smiles and the chuckles… you simply see the true deal. BDSM is meant to make us happy, to let you fly without wings, to let you feel passionate and pleasure about your inner nature whether it is submission or domination, to let you grow and evolve within a sane , consensual and safe environment. We can’t deny that there are some abusers, fakes and players that use the lifestyle as a cover for hurting others and taking advantage of them and making them miserable but we also have genuine amazing people who do their best each single day for their partners and they always bring a smile to their face. Our submissives do their best to pleases Us and we do all we can to return such happiness to them and draw a smile on their beautiful lips all the time even when they are bound.. you can see the happiness all over them.

- Tarq at Whips, Chains, and Duct Tape’s Facebook Page (via happybdsm)

This is fucking amazing.

(via precious-her)

Yes!

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REBLOG THIS if you think a healthy relationship can include BDSM.
so true

so true

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

lost-prince-of-asguard:

thepiscesactor:

This lack of notes is disturbing.